For a long time I have been wanting a cat and on Friday I finally got my wish. Everybody meet Tommy! Tommy is a rescue cat that we got from our local cat and dogs home. He is a year old and, as you can tell, is super cute.
The thing is, I am actually allergic to cats. I am perfectly willing to take antihistamines to help any reactions. That being said, my allergies have actually been ok with Tommy and Tommy is like a wee shadow with me at the moment and is coming to lie on top of me and next to me for lots of snuggles. In any case, having a pet has a lot of benefits.
- Boost mood
- Help relieve stress
- Can boost self esteem
- A sense of purpose
- A conversation starter
Having a chronic illness, such as fibromyalgia, can be socially isolating so having a pet provides companionship. Not only that, but a pet has unconditional love for it’s owner. You can’t get dressed? A pet is not going to judge that. You are really tired? A pet is not going to judge that. In fact a pet, especially a cat or dog is likely to curl up next to you. Tommy has already been a great comfort for me in curling up next to me when I feel rubbish and feel like I cannot move.
Having a pet means having responsibilities. This weekend I have felt like I could not move and get out my bed. I have had to move to feed Tommy and to look after him. It might not be much but taking care of him is like taking care of myself. I gave Tommy food, so I had something to eat myself. It has made me feel like I have a purpose and I am not completely useless.
All weekend I have been texting my friends about Tommy and all the funny things he has done. He’s been a good distraction from my pain. I think he knows I am in pain. He keeps coming over to me and lying next to me. It’s been a sore weekend, but I have been the happiest I have been in a while and it’s due to having Tommy around.
Remember to be nice to people, you don’t know the struggles they may be having. They are just feeling their way through life, the same as you are.
If you are able to give an animal a forever home, I fully recommend it. I feel it has a lot of positives, for myself and for Tommy.